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Wednesday, April 25, 2012

The vitality of cleanliness

by Ayeen Jafery. 

          When we were just a toddler, anything our parents or something that was being taught to us will held firmly and implanted in our mind. It is essential to have a good habits at an early age and being clean and tidy is vital and most important in our daily life basis. 

            From a very young age, formation of certain habits like washing hands before meals, regular brushing of teeth, and bathing are a must. These are entirely personal habits. And, since we live in a society it is essential to follow certain rules like keeping our surroundings clean, avoiding littering in public places, refraining from spitting on the road, and many more. 

           Any habits, good or bad, taught or even picked up at a young age, get embedded into one's personality. Unfortunately, today, many adults themselves do not set very good examples of cleanliness. In fact, habits like smoking, chewing tobacco , and spitting on roads and sidewalks, are a sick heritage handed down from our parents and elderly relatives. Many public places used for defecating are left messy and stinking, leading to any number of diseases. 

         If litter on the road and poor sanitation is being practiced all the time, just imagine these will make an excellent place for those creepy crawly animals as well as infectious diseases to occur. A healthy environment is necessary if we want to stay healthy. If the environment is dirty it badly affects the health of the people living around. 

       Wherever we live, it is important for us to keep it clean. Let's start with our individual homes. If our homes are clean we will obviously enjoy a healthy life. In society it is the responsibility of each and every human being to maintain certain hygienic standards. A clean environment, besides being a pleasure to live in, is a healthy environment.

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Public Transportation in Brunei and London

by Ayeen Jafery. 



To be honest, public transportation in Brunei is quite limited. Even though, over the years we could see some improvements being made, there is still more room for Brunei to make the public transport more popular to the locals and tourists. As you can see, they are mostly only used only by the foreigners who reside in Brunei and is not favoured by the locals. This is because they are limited. There is still much to be done to improve  and promote public transportation in Brunei. Just imagine Brunei having these MRTs, won't you want to start using it? 

Public transportation over here are made up of mostly taxis and bus services. Taxis are scarce and limitedly available at hotels, shopping centres, the Brunei International Airport and in the capital, Bandar Seri Begawan. As for buses, there are only six bus routes in daily operation in Bandar Seri Begawan - the Eastern Line, the Southern Line, the Western Line, the Central Line, the Circle Line and the Northern Line. The buses are purple in colour and quite small and mainly used by foreigners. From what I had observed, most Bruneians do not use these services. Do you ever wonder why? Are they really easily available? 

It's time for us to think about why this is happening. Public transportation should make our daily lives easier but in Brunei, most people drive their own cars and get caught in traffic jams! When I was in London recently, I noticed that their public transportation was highly popular amongst the locals and tourists alike. Same goes for other countries for that matter! 

In London, the main source of public transport is the Underground or tubes as they call it and they are really reliable. It’s a very extensive network and you can go to all places in London quickly. The tubes are properly labelled so it is easy to reach your desired destinations without getting lost. For example, at the front of the train, at the platform indicator, it will show the ultimate destination of the train and when the train will be arriving. The tubes arrive at every station in a timely manner. The stations also have maps to show you the all the alternative routes you can use to reach your destination. Each tube station is within easy distance with each other and if you are confused or if by mistake, you use the wrong tubes, you can always get off the tubes at any one station and change your direction. The tube attendants are very helpful too so there would be no problem at all. On top of that, the tube stations are decorated really beautifully and is very clean. In terms of price, Londoners usually opt to buy tube tickets called Oyster Cards where you can top up and use instead of having to buy a ticket all the time.

Buses are also quite reliable in London and they're quite cheap. In some areas where tubes are not available, we could hop into buses. The bus stops are well signposted and each stop gives information about all the bus destinations, alternative stops nearby for other buses, frequency, etc. The buses in London are easily identifiable because they are red in colour and two stories, it is known famously as Double Decker buses. They are also quite nice to ride especially on the top deck where we could see London's beautiful scenaries. There are night buses and 24 hour buses in London where it generally runs all through the night and from hourly to 4 rides an hour, seven nights a week. So it is so easy to look for public transport in London compared to Brunei where buses are available during the day only. 

Apart from tubes and buses, there are also taxis in London. Although taxis are less popular due to the high cost, they are also beautifully decorated and the taxi drivers are very friendly and helpful. 

In conclusion, to be successful in promoting the public transportation in Brunei, it is very important to know what is wanted and favoured by the people. The most important thing is knowing how to change the mindset of the people so that they could accept the idea of using these services and the only way to achieve that is to have proper and reliable service and on top of that, to give good promotions to the people so they would start to get used to the idea.

Revised by Joanne Lim.

Sunday, April 8, 2012

Chinese Club

by Hedwig Mui & Chok Siong Wee.

Hey guys! I’m a Chinese and I’m here to tell you some interesting facts about the Chinese language. First of all, the Chinese language (华语-simplified chinese/華語-traditional chinese) is a language or language family consisting of varieties which are mutually intelligible to varying degrees. Originally the indigenous languages spoken by the Han Chinese in China, it forms one of the branches of Sino-Tibetan family of languages. About one-fifth of the world's population, or over one billion people, speaks some variety of Chinese as their native language. Some examples of dialects are such as Cantonese, Hokkien, Hakka, FooChow and etc.

As some of you guys may know, there’s a new club that just started this year and it’s the Chinese Club! It’s supervised by 4 Chinese teachers in the school and its president is Chai Kah. On the first meeting of this club, we had a Chinese New Year celebration with lots of biscuits, cakes and drinks! Too bad I have no pictures for that but I’ll show you some from a Chinese New Year celebration at home. 

Traditional cakes eaten during Chinese New Year

Just two weeks ago, we had our second meeting and the president taught us numbers in Chinese. It was so much fun. We learned how to write, how to pronounce and how to put them into use. Last week, during the third meeting, we learned how to address our family members, such as father, mother, brother, sister, etc.

Chinese characters


This club is not only open for Chinese students, it’s for everyone. So if you are interested and want to join, just look for the president, Chai Kah!

Saturday, April 7, 2012

Having a rabbit as pet : The Do’s and don’t’s

by Ayeen Jafery.



First and foremost, in my opinion, rabbits are the cutest creatures alive. It is quite peaceful to have them as they are very quiet and gentle. Having a rabbit can be a handful but once you know the basic way to care for them, it can be a whole lot of fun. 

Rabbits have a list of breeds and they can be found in different parts of the world. Breeds such as the Alaska from Germany, American White from the United States, Blanc de Hotot from France, we’ve got Britannia Petite from England and lots more! Having owned a rabbit myself for almost four years, I know the experience firsthand.  Based on that experience, let me explain the do’s and don’t’s on how to take care of a rabbit.

The do’s :

à Pat them every single day. Rabbits love to be patted on the head and their whole body. However, at certain times, they do not like to be patted. When this happen, we should just let them wander on their own.

à Rabbits love vegetables, especially carrots! When giving them vegetables, carrots, for instance, you should not cut them, leave it as it as and if you put your rabbit in a cage, just hang the carrot on the cage bars. The same goes for other vegetables, preferably broccoli or any other local veggies from the super market. You should give different varieties of veggies to see what they like.

à Preferably, give vegetables during the night and during day time, you should give them pellets available at the local pet store.

à  Give them lots of hays. Hays could be found at most local pet stores so its easy to find. These hays are one of the important diet of rabbits. Rabbits need to chew all the time for the health of their digestive  systems. Fresh hay will pick up their interest on munching as well!

à  Give rabbits lots of water because rabbits need to hydrate themselves all the time.

à Let the rabbits out of their cage a few hours a day. Rabbits love to exercise and stretch. So for those who put their rabbit in a cage, always make time to let them out for a couple of hours at least.

à Cut their nails once in a while, although you might need an advice from the vet first on how to cut them. Rabbits’ nails are prone to bleeding if you cut through their veins so you should always avoid the red lines and cut the white part only. If this occur, the best way to stop the bleeding is to put their hand in a lump of flour.

à Give rabbits things to chew. They love to munch on hard things, this is to exercise their teeth. If they don’t have anything to munch on, their teeth will be itchy and it is uncomfortabl  to them. Having a pellet will definitely help them but you should also give them hay ( also available at the local store ).

à Clean their cage everyday, discard the poos and make the cage clean and tidy.

The don’t's :

à Don’t pull the rabbit by the ear! ( It hurts them and they seriously do not like it ) .  If they need to be carried around, hold them close to your body and lift them from their bottom and their front feet.

à Don’t give rabbits a bath. They don’t bath and they don’t need to, they can clean their body all by themselves. Also, having a bath is uncomfortable to them and they don’t like cold water.

à Don’t leave them in their cage for too long, they will become fat and inactive. Their lack of activities will lower down their physical being and leads to all different sorts of ailments.

à Don’t carry rabbits too high. Rabbits are afraid of heights and sometimes don’t like to be carried around.

As mentioned above, having a rabbit/rabbits can be quite handful but they are a quiet and vulnerable creatures.  Although they don’t make any sound they do have feelings and very well aware of their surroundings.  They are also so cute and cuddly and its been so joyful to have rabbits around the house.  

Friday, April 6, 2012

Personal Statements

by Caroline Tan.


Time flies and before we know it, it is our turn, the upper six students of PTEK to write our own personal statements! Before everything else, I would like to ask, what is the most common country that Bruneians tend to want to go to in order to further their studies after graduating from sixth-form? I can assure you that out of 10 people, more than half would answer “UK”.  Good! Now if you have always wanted to go to UK to further your studies, you most probably have heard of UCAS. It’s a website which students make use of to find suitable universities in the United Kingdom! Here, take a look: ucas.ac.uk 

Ok now, back to writing our personal statements. What is a personal statement, you ask? The UCAS personal statement is a 47 line (or 4000 character) piece of writing that allows you to tell the universities and colleges you are applying and to why they should offer you a place on the course. In order to do this successfully, you need to convey your passion and enthusiasm for the subject to the admission tutors, as well as demonstrate your suitability to the course. I suggest you have to have a pretty good idea of what course you want to study before continuing much further with your personal statement. Generally, personal statements are quite specific, so if you decide to change the course you are applying for you would need to rewrite your personal statement. 

Don’t know what you want to be in the future? Don’t know what course to go for? It’s time my dear, to do some research and set your mind already! Actually, having a right goal in mind and being determined in what you want to be in the future helps to motivate you to study. Personally, it is the only thing that is pushing me forward, really. Take a look: http://www.studential.com/applying/choosingadegree After you have chosen a degree, all you need to do is, “sell yourself”. You should know by now that it’s really up to a university whether to accept you or not. The slots for international students are very limited and so they will judge you from how well you construct your personal statements and how well you are! Just a bit of a story, in my math class, my teacher told me to look into your own refection in the mirror, and ask yourself : ‘Who is it that person in the refection?’ And whatever comes to your mind after that, write it all down with honesty. Then, link your qualities with what you should be accepted as, into your choice of university. 

Don’t be too afraid to write and ‘sell yourself’ totally! It’s a personal statement. It is supposed to be about you. It’s about you and only you. My advice is to not to just study, but also join some clubs. Perhaps play some sports and music and tell your choice of university that you are not only good academically, but also physically and mentally! It always helps to get a part time job during school holidays too, universities would be grateful to know that besides having to study, you still have time to go to work and gain some experience. One thing that you should never do is make up stories and lie about yourself in your personal statements. Some degrees like medicine, require you to go for an interview and from there, your true colours will reveal. So do not put your future at risk. Personal statements are like trust-based systems. Once it’s broken, you’re never trustworthy anymore. We all are still students, so none of us are experts in this. I have requested one of the teachers in the career section to give a talk in the multipurpose hall on how to write personal statements. He reassured me that there would be, and not to worry. 

For more information , visit : http://www.studential.com/guide/write_personal_statement.htm

Revised by Joanne Lim.

Thursday, April 5, 2012

K-Leaugue Schedule

To those who are supporting the K-League, here is the schedule:


Monday, 2nd April 2012         - Batis Vs K-Knights (0 - 1)
                                                    - II FC Vs MIC (6 - 0)


Tuesday, 3rd April 2012         - Starjan Vs Pisako FC (1 - 2)
                                                    - K-Gunners Vs Selungsung (2 - 0)


Wednesday, 4th April 2012   - Tenggiling Vs Batis (0 - 9)
                                                    - K-Knights Vs II FC (1 - 4)


Thursday, 5th April 2012        - MIC Vs Starjan (1 - 0)
                                                    - Pisako FC Vs K-Gunners (0 - 7)


Monday, 9th April 2012           - Selungsung Vs Tenggiling (2:30-3:55PM)
                                                    - Batis Vs MIC (4:00-5:45PM)


Tuesday, 10th April 2012       - II FC Vs Starjan (2:30-3:55PM)
                                                    - Pisako FC Vs K-Knights (4:00-5:45PM)


Wednesday, 11th April 2012 - Batis Vs K-Gunners (2:30-3:55PM)
                                                    - Tenggiling Vs MIC (4:00-5:45PM)


Thursday, 12th April 2012      - Selungsung Vs Pisako FC (2:30-3:55PM)
                                                    - Starjan Vs K-Knights (4:00-5:45PM)


Monday, 16th April 2012         - K-Knights Vs K-Gunners (2:30-3:55PM)
                                                    - Batis Vs Starjan (4:00-5:45PM)


Tuesday, 17th April 2012       - Pisako FC Vs Tenggiling  (2:30-3:55PM)
                                                    - Selungsung Vs II FC (4:00-5:45PM)


Wednesday, 18th April 2012 - MIC Vs K-Knights (2:30-3:55PM)
                                                    - K-Gunners Vs Starjan (4:00-5:45PM)


Thursday, 19th April 2012      - Batis Vs Selungsung (2:30-3:55PM)
                                                    - Pisako FC Vs II FC (4:00-5:45PM)


Monday, 23rd April 2012        - K-Gunners Vs II FC (2:30-3:55PM)
                                                    - Pisako FC Vs Batis (4:00-5:45PM)


Tuesday, 24th April 2012       - Selungsung Vs Starjan (2:30-3:55PM)
                                                    - Tenggiling Vs K-Knights (4:00-5:45PM)


Wednesday, 25th April 2012 - II FC Vs Batis (2:30-3:55PM)
                                                    - K-Gunners Vs MIC (4:00-5:45PM)


Thursday, 26th April 2012     - K-Knights Vs Selungsung (2:30-3:55PM)
                                                    - Tenggiling Vs Starjan (4:00-5:45PM)


Monday, 30th April 2012         - K-Gunners Vs Tenggiling (2:30-3:55PM)


Tuesday, 1st May 2012          - MIC Vs Selungsung (2:30-3:55PM)


Wednesday, 2nd May 2012   - II FC Vs Tenggiling (2:30-3:55PM)


Thursday, 3rd May 2012         - MIC Vs Pisako FC (2:30-3:55PM)


* SEMI FINALS'S AND FINALS'S SCHEDULE WILL BE RELEASED ONCE ALL MATCHES HAVE FINISHED. 
* CHANGES MIGHT OCCUR.

Friday, March 9, 2012

Macho, macho men: How Masculinity Is Portrayed In Television


Macho
a word of Spanish and Portuguese origin
Traditionally, the word 'macho' carried many positive associations. To be 'macho' was to be well-respected, embodying traits such as courage, valor, honor, sincerity, pride, humility and responsibility.
- The Macho Paradox, Jackson Katz
1. having or characterized by qualities considered 'manly', especially when manifested in an assertive, self-conscious, or dominating way.
2. having a strong or exaggerated sense of power or the right to dominate.
3. an assertively virile, dominating, or domineering male.
This particular report explores the abundance of male characters, representations of men and of masculinities in TV shows and movies that we watch. These are of course limited to my interests in action, fantasy and science fiction but I consider these genres to be particularly interesting because they have either been associated with progressiveness (science-fiction and fantasy) or been consciously masculine in nature (action).
Let’s start by looking at the trailer for "Captain America, the first Avenger":


It took about 3 seconds for the trailer to show us that Captain America was in fact, not good enough to be counted as a man because he was short and skinny. This scrawny man has to be taught how to become a 'real man'. So, let’s stick him in a machine and VOILA! He emerges as the beloved (and benevolent) Captain America – white, young, able-bodied, muscular and handsome.
Many stories in TV shows and movies revolve around men and are frequently told from male perspectives.
Some stereotypical representations of masculinities often present in TV shows include:
1) Need for control
Walter in Fringe – often talks about the need to control both universes from falling apart
Peter in Fringe – often talks about the need to understand and control “The Machine” which supposedly heralds the end of the world.
Admiral William Adama in BSG – general need to control what is happening on the BSG starship
Picard in Star Trek: The Next Generation (ST:TNG) - general need to control what is happening on the starship Enterprise
Eric Northman in True Blood – he wants to control Sookie and fully regulate the activities of the district of which he is in charge.
2) Need to “protect” women

Bill in True Blood – often talks about “protecting” Sookie from harm
Michael Westen in Burn Notice – often talks about “protecting” Fiona or Madeline, his mother
Logan Echols in Veronica Mars – often talks about wanting to protect Veronica. In Season 3, beats up the maker of Veronica’s sex tape twice in the name of ‘protecting her honor’ despite her disapproval. Riggghtt.
3) Physical prowess characterized by abundant muscles and/or  formidable height (if not formidable, then taller than the rest of the men in the show)
Steve McGarrett in Hawaii Five-O - often displays his physical prowess by refusing to catch criminal suspects in a car, preferring to run on foot and subsequently tackling them to the ground
Steven Bloom in Undercovers – tall, muscular, dark and handsome. What more needs to be said?
Javier Esposito in Castle – muscular and handsome Latino man. Again, nuff’ said.
Kyle Hobbes in V – Framed as the exemplary “soldier” of the war against the Vs. Often displays his muscles by wearing tight black T-shirts.
Cpt. Lee Adama or Apollo in BSG - Often found working out in the gym. In Season 3 when New Caprica is established,  Apollo is shown to be a fat captain of BSG who has been disillusioned by his role. When he finally realizes that he can pitch in to help the escape of New Caprica, he magically loses all his weight and becomes muscular Apollo once again who saves the day.
Lt. Warf in ST:TNG - Tall, muscular Klingon. Tactical officer and head of weaponry aboard the Starship Enterprise D. Considered to be one of the two strongest people on the main bridge. The other is Lt. Commander Data, an android.
Wallace Fennel in Veronica Mars – a superstar basketball player
4) Lack of feeling or general hesitancy and aversion towards any emotion other than anger, vengeance and occasionally, love.
Steven Bloom in Undercovers – Stoic with no feeling most of the time.
Leo Nash in Undercovers -Engages in activities like alcohol, women and drugs to ‘distract’ him from what he really wants and refuses to acknowledge – a settled life with a woman he loves. This is a classic “Playboy” trope in male characters. Usually, it is paired with someone on the show who is the “opposite” i.e. ‘the family” man. In this case, the “family man” is Steven Bloom.
John Casey in Chuck - Hates discussing his feelings and views them as “weak”.
Jayne Cobb in Firefly – Again, hates discussing feelings and sees them as “weak”.
Colonel Saul Tigh in BSG - Often appears stoic in the face of adversity. Or just very very angry.
Picard in ST:TNG - Appears calm and stoic in the face of adversity. Or very angry.
Steve McGareett in Hawaii-Five O – Vengeful, angry man.
5) Favours physical, emotional, psychological or financial violence
Steve McGarrett in Hawaii Five-O – often uses physical violence as a way to capture criminal suspects. Also threatens violence on other people in the name of avenging his father’s death.
Castle in Castle – He has frequently manipulated his way into Kate’s life and recently, manipulated a fellow writer so he would not have to share Kate as a muse
Logan Echols in Veronica Mars – Uses emotional and psychological violence on Veronica several times in the show. Uses physical violence when he wrecks Veronica’s car in Season 1 and beats up suspected sex-tape maker in Season 3.
Tyler Evans in V – constantly emotionally manipulates his mother, Diana.
Eric Northman in True Blood – Allows Sookie to “accidentally” drink his blood and subsequently, stalks her emotionally without her knowledge.
Boyd Langton in Dollhouse - asks Topher to dismember the body of a killed client to hide the evidence.
Chuck Bartowski in Chuck - often tries to use emotional manipulation to get his way with Sarah.
6) Clearly (hetero)sexually viable and attractive as mates  -  e.g. we see them in bed with a woman or as a LT partner to a female character
Chuck  Bartowski in Chuck
Morgan Grimes in Chuck
Tyler Evans in V
Kyle Hobbes in V
Bill in True Blood
Steven Bloom in Undercovers
Castle in Castle
Malcolm in Firefly

Steve McGarrett in Hawaii

Five-O
Leo Nash in Undercovers
Javier Esposito in Castle
Bill in True Blood
Michael Westen in Burn Notice
Cpt. Adama (Apollo) in BSG
Admiral Adama in BSG
Will Riker in ST: TNG
Wallace Fennel in Veronica Mars
7) Get the job done without necessarily having the brains to  figure out how
Steve McGarrett in Hawaii Five-O – often depends on Kono, the Smurfette or Chin Ho for intel and suggestions
John Casey in Chuck - likes to blindly follows Beckman’s orders
Will Riker in Star Trek: TNG – We never see Will contribute intelligent suggestions to the Captain that help solve the situation they are facing in the episodes. Yet he is Number 2 and often sent out on away missions.
Men who deviate from any or all of these representations are often positioned as “lesser men” typically, in comparison to the “real man” on the show.

Tyler Evans in V – Tyler shows too much emotion, explained away by the fact that he is still young and thus, isn’t a “real man” yet. He also has no substantial role in V except as a clueless pawn and eventually, dies at the hand of a fake Lisa after having sex with her unknowingly.
Father Jack Landry vs. Kyle Hobbes  in V- Not sexually viable as a Christian priest, shows too much emotion (he cries and has a conscience towards killing innocent people). He does not have a need for control preferring instead to believe in fate as a result of his religious affliation. He is the shortest of all the men in the primary cast and does not favour violence.
Hoban “Wash” Washburne  vs. Cpt Malcolm Reynolds in Firefly – Married to Zoe Washburne who is shown to “wear the pants in the relationship”. Not very muscular and is quite intelligent in ship’s processing and engineering bits.
Lafayette  in True Blood – Is queer and does not have an aversion to showing feeling for Tara, his cousin, when she is in bad shape.
Topher Brink vs. Boyd Langton in Dollhouse – Uses intellect to get things done. Not muscular and never seen as heterosexually viable. Once, he shows fear and regret after killing another man. Boyd swoops in for the rescue.
Dr. Gauis Baltar vs. Admiral Adama in BSG – Again, uses his brain more than his brawn to get things done.
Bill Hoyt vs. Steven Bloom/Leo Nash in Undercovers  – AGAIN, uses his brain and techno skills to get things done instead of his brawn/ability to seduce women.
Morgan Grimes vs. John Casey in Chuck – Morgan is the short, bumbling best friend to Chuck. He shows way too much care for his best friend and is thus considered weak.
Chuck Bartowski vs. John Casey in Chuck – Shows too much emotion and likes to talk things through instead of just smashing the wall in the hopes of getting rid of the problem.
Kevin Ryan vs. Esposito  in Castle – Is the shorter, more effeminate of the pair. Also, the more intelligent.
Dano vs Steve in Hawaii Five-O – Again, shorter and the one with more feelings in the pair.
Lt Felix Gata in BSG - Again, uses his brain to solve problems, not his brawn.
Lt. Cmdr. Geordi La Forge in ST:TNG – Uses his brain and does not favor violence to solve his problems. He is also rarely seen as sexually viable by women and his closest relationship is to another man, the android Data.
Wallace in Veronica Mars – Doesn’t seem to have much intelligence, just brawn.
I’m sure I missed a couple of characters here and there (plus, I've limited my case studies to the sitcoms I have watched) but I think the point is that men who are not stereotypically masculine are shown as “lesser men” subsequently as lesser human beings and characters. Note that though most of these characters are able to emote and show vulnerabilities in individual situations,  majority of the show and their character depends on their being stereotypically masculine (read: stoic, handsome, muscular, charismatic men who save the situation and the women).
Now, some of you may say “If you look for it, you will find it”. Well, it’s not like I’m looking too hard, most of these factors are on the surface of the show. They are obvious, right in our faces.
It is disheartening to see that men are given such limited roles in TV shows. I want to see shows where men respect one another, despite their differences. Where men respect women as full and complete human beings on their own terms, not on men’s terms. Where it is alright for a man to show sadness, fear, love beyond sex and care for someone other than his girlfriend, his wife or his mother. Where it is okay if they don’t want to “fight it out” and instead, sit down and talk. Where’s it’s okay to be content with fulfilling emotional relationships with other men without being accused of being gay. Where you can be gay and still be considered a man. Where it’s okay for them to be short and fat and still considered manly. Where they do not feel a need to “protect” women but to work with women to find the solution to their mutual problems. Where there is no constant need to control everything in their lives.
Again, I’m not saying it’s not wrong to watch these shows – everyone of us, including myself, need a little escape. But to watch them without critical reception is unwise. Social stereotypes exist EVERYWHERE even when they are packaged in fun boxes labelled 'TV shows and movies for pleasure'. The 'for pleasure' tag might just be the thing that gets us to buy into sexism, racism and other isms that people have to live with everyday outside of the television box.
For change to be really happen, writers and viewers need to look at the characters of men just as much as they need to look at the characters of women. We can’t work towards adequate representations of one gender because that is not enough. We need to start conceptualizing of both women and men as full and complete human beings who are able to feel the whole range of emotions without being accused of being” too emotional”. We need to start looking at women and men as people in their own right.

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